I am 22 years old. I am in a very complicated situation. Actually, I love my real sister, who is four years older than me. She loves me a lot. The relationship between us is more than that of brothers and sisters. I don’t want to hide from you, we actually have a legal relationship. We both came so close to each other that we wanted to live our future life as normal husband and wife. But, my problem is that our parents don’t know anything about it.
Not only did she schedule her wedding without her sister’s consent, but we are also scared of the current situation. We cannot leave each other under any circumstances. So I don’t know what to do now. Should we tell our parents about our relationship? Or should we continue with this situation?
Kamna Chhibber, Head of the Department of Mental Health and Behavioral Sciences at Fortis Healthcare, says: You both deal with your confidence when you choose to start your sporting activities.
Marriage is a very beautiful aspect of society, for which many customs have been made. This is also one of the reasons why people who decide to get married differently have to struggle a lot to reconcile it.
You both know your parents very well. You both know exactly how they react when they know you are in more than a brotherly relationship. Keeping all these things in mind, you need to move forward in your life. In all these cases, a decision has to be taken so that the family is not brought into disrepute.
On the other hand, if a sister is not happy with her marriage proposal, she can discuss it with her parents. Yes, keep one thing in mind during this discussion that both of you need to be completely silent about your relationship. Because if your parents come to know about both of you, then they will say no to this relationship even if they want, which can ruin your life.
After you mention that you want to marry your sister, she also imagines her next life with you. But we want to tell you that what you both think about love is one kind of affair. It is often seen that the person with whom we spend a lot of time starts liking him.
You both live under the same roof day and night, so it is important to understand your relationship with each other. So think carefully before taking any step. If you want, you can also take the help of a consultant. He will be able to explain these things to you better.